motivation, Self help


Skip the intro..., Validation from people? That's normal to someone I guess but it's definitely not right. Yes,as humans,we feel the need to be accepted into society,the need to fit in and probably be like everyone else. We need someone to tell us we're beautiful before it begins to sink in and it's normal-sometimes- but… Continue reading VALIDATION

depression, motivation, quotes, self esteem, Self help


Hello ๐Ÿ‘‹, People often think it is impossible to regain /rebuild their self-esteem because that is what low self-esteem makes you believe. Getting your self-esteem back is similar to embarking on a very long journey. The outcome of the journey depends on your will,it could yield positive or negative results depending on what you do.… Continue reading REGAINING YOUR SELF-ESTEEM .

depression, motivation, Self help


Hello ๐Ÿ‘‹, There are times when we are at our lowest,we pay attention to what people say about us and care about fitting into everyone's good books and that's totally normal as humans. When it becomes continuous,there's a problem. You have reached the point where you seek VALIDATION from other people and live your lives… Continue reading HOW LOW SELF-ESTEEM WORKS

depression, Featured, friendship, motivation, quotes, relationships, Self help


Hello ๐Ÿ‘‹, I've been struggling with what to write ๐Ÿ˜” so I decided to write about anything and everything. As humans,we have our moments and troubles. Times when we feel alone, thinking about how the world just never works in our favour. We're caught up in a web of faรงade trying to fit into society… Continue reading “A LITTLE BIT OF EVERYTHING”

motivation, Self help

Girl Issues

Quick question: In your next life, would you rather be a boy or a girl?. Many wonder why girls have so many issues ranging from numerous insecurities to eating disorders,low self-esteem and inferiority complex admist others. I would say that's a personal choice to make because gender doesn't dictate my behavior and character. However, for… Continue reading Girl Issues

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Hello ๐Ÿ‘‹, Healing is one of the many hard processes humans go through in life. Your crush just asked another girl out? Or your friend wrote a test without you?. No, you don't need healing from that. I'm talking real life threatening situations here. That moment when it feels like your whole life has been… Continue reading HEALING.

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Hello Ayo, This is a letter from a younger version of yourself. I have so many questions to ask and I hope everything worked out the way we planned it. How many new stamps does your passport have?.... I really hope it's not less than 10, how many countries have you toured? Do you record… Continue reading A LETTER TO MY FUTURE SELF#TAG.

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Hello ๐Ÿ‘‹, Everyone has that particular (special) thing that makes them happy. It sรจrves as a comfort zone. It could be a place,an activity or anything you can think of and it relieves them of stress,they feel very comfortable doing that thing and it seems to offload all their burdens. For me, that thing is… Continue reading WHAT’S YOUR SAFE HAVEN?